Love in Development of the Social Self Environment
-Loving Each Other In Joy
The only thing worth having in life is a sense of humor. Joy is the greatest achievement to humans. It shows the total personality of one self to the outside world. No one can be happy unless they believe they are.
Relationships are impossible without a sense of humor ;laughter and joy. Life should never be taken likely. This is serious business. To a certain degree this is true. This gives even more reason to have a sense of humor. It takes courage to laugh in a world where there is rape; killings; and so much hurt toward others.
There are many people that actually feel guilty when they’re happy. Often one may feel as if they are going to be punished for sharing a roaring laugh. Just look at all the comics that are hired to make people laugh. This has probably save many people from the straight jacket. Life is a wonderful joke and humans are actually the center of it.
Joy; laughter; and humor are all wonderful in bringing comfort into a relationship. This helps in relieving tension. Joy can actual help in aiding digestion. It tends to stimulate the heart and strengthens muscles.
Joy and happiness are simply states of the mind. This is good in finding creative solutions. When one is full of joy, they are more open to enjoying life. You are prone to seeing things clearer and able to handle daily tension. When one laughs it secretes a hormone that tends to act as a natural painkiller. If you are too lazy to jog , simply laugh . This causes all the vital organs to vibrate and jostle.
When you have nothing to do, no one to love , and it seems you have no one to love, joy will come into your life. You should always love completely. Never relinquish your dreams. These things will help you , but joy will only be yours when you choose it to be. Most people are only as happy as one makes up their mind to be. Many relationships have been saved by a good belly laugh.
Often one may seem to carry the weight of the world on their shoulders, never fear an ounce of joy can remove that weight. Ever so often, one needs to create a level of freedom and risk. This should include an active environment full of surprises and a sense of humor. It is very easy to bond in an environment of joy.
It is rather weird that the happiest people are those that seem to have no particular reason to rejoice. They are just simply happy. You can sense the willingness to risk; and the ability to fail but let go. Truly they believe in themselves. This shows the unique resource of creativity and the ability to hold on to their dreams.
Everyone is responsible for his or her own happiness. You may define your happiness in a unique way. No one can tell you what makes you happy, even though there are some people that will try.
Only a fool would expect to find happiness continuously and try to hold on to it. Happiness occurs as an n action to some feeling. Very seldom does one realize that all this joy and happiness comes from within one self.
Human beings are very comical and life has given everyone the opportunity to enjoy laughter and joy. All that is necessary is the need to laugh again. Laughter is the youthful side of repentance and of misunderstanding. Laughter is probably the closest distance that two people will share. So if you need something to bring you together in a relationship , laughter is sure way. Laughter is brought on spontaneous and brings much joy to one self.